Actually it's more like getting rid of the unnecessary leaves.
We're trying to simplify our life and one of the measures we're taking is consolidating our blogs. I will no longer be posting on this blog. I'll keep it around so you can see old photos or search for a recipe but if you'd like to keep up with our family please visit our Family Blog.
Turning Over a New Leaf
Wrapping up the Week
I'm glad it's Friday. The kids and I all have a little runny nose cold and we're ready for more time with Chuck. We're also going to try to be more disciplined with our rest this weekend. Last night at our Home Group (bible study) we talked about the Sabbath. If you haven't gone through Tim Keller's "Gospel in Life" study you should. It's the best Bible study I've ever worked through.
The last few weeks I've been trying to work on my dreads a little everyday or two so they stay tight and don't get out of hand. When I don't give them any attention they get loose, hairs work their way out and my roots don't lock up on their own yet so my whole head looks droopy and frizzy. Blah.
It's a lot of work (and therefore expensive if someone other than Chuck does it) to fix my whole head all at once so Chuck and I really have to give it an hour or so of attention every week to avoid that. It's not the most exciting date ever but it really shows me that Chuck is devoted to me when he works on my hair.
No Added Sweetener
Ruby has been doing much better tolerating wheat lately so I haven't had to be as careful with it. I still make mostly gluten free muffins and limit her cracker intake, etc. so that I don't have to limit so much when we eat out and so she can eat goldfish crackers at church.
I have been working more at limiting her (and my) sugar intake. For more than a year now I've been realizing that there's too much sugar in too many things. I no longer feed the kids regular breakfast cereals or even baby and toddler marketed products because they contain too much sugar. I've found, however, that the kids don't mind eating rice puffs with no sugar or corn flakes sweetened with fruit juice! It's been relatively easy because they're still little and don't really know any different which is all the more reason to limit their sugar - it does their bodies no good so why give it to them!?
The easiest way to limit sugar is to make things from scratch. At first I began cutting the sugar in recipes or replacing it with sweet fruits like applesauce or bananas. Then, several months ago, I was introduced to coconut oil and it's become so much easier. I have found that when I use coconut oil in a recipe (in place of veggie oil or butter for example) I don't need to add any sugar (or alternative sweetener) and you don't miss the sugar at all!
Here's a website about coconut oil - there are lots out there but this one is pretty measured and basic.
Even Chuck agrees that the best pancake recipe of all time is the one that contains coconut oil and no sugar!
I've been so excited about this because not only is it important to limit white sugar but all added sweeteners. That means honey, brown rice syrup, maple syrup or whatever! Your body treats them nearly the same - it has to work harder to break them down because they don't have anything good for your body to use.
I've found that the less sugar I eat, the less I need to make something sweet and the better I feel. I can really feel my body react if I drink a soda or eat a piece of cake because I don't do it often.
Here's a quick article about recommended sugar intake.
Here are a few of our favorite no added sweetener recipes:
Best Pancakes Ever:
1 cup flour (any kind really, we've used white whole wheat, regular and oat flour)
1 cup yogurt
1/3 cup melted coconut oil
1 egg
1 tsp baking soda
1 tsp vanilla
cinnamon if desired (we've been adding cinnamon and nutmeg lately - I love fall!)
Mix everything together adding milk if it's too thick. Enjoy!
Apple Banana Muffins (the kids current favorite)
This recipe was adapted from one my sister posted recently - it was her brilliant idea to add apple pieces instead of applesauce.
1 1/2 cups chopped apples (really small!)
1/4 cup almond butter
1 3/4 cups flour
2 eggs
3 bananas
1 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp salt
1 1/2 tsp vanilla
1/4 cup coconut oil
Mix all and bake for 20 min. at 350 degrees. These turn out really soft so make sure you cook them until the tops are nice and brown but don't worry when they're soft in the middle because the apple pieces are in there.
And because it's fall - Peanut Butter Pumpkin Bread (revisited)
Hiya
We played at the mall a few days ago and even Enzo got to play a little. He's growing fast. He's started pulling up on things, although not very often since we don't have a coffee table (we did when Ruby was in that stage).
My lack of posting is directly related to my lack of free time. I don't have enough time each day to get what I need done so I hardly do anything unnecessary (let alone get all my needed stuff done). I can't even really articulate it without complaining so I'll just leave you with a cute photo.
1 Corinthians 15:19
1 Corinthians 15:19
If in Christ we have hope in this life only, we are of all people most to be pitied.
Philippians 2:14-16
Philippians 2:12-13
Ruby got a new sweat suit yesterday and she was very interested in the hood. Here she is informing us of that.
I continued reading in Philippians and while I've read verses 12 and 13 before and even heard a sermon or two on them I still feel like there's some mystery in them I still don't understand.
I know that God is the author and perfectly of my faith but what part do I work out? However, the thought of getting to heaven and having Jesus say "I never knew you" is frightening and does cause me to take my faith and relationship with Christ more seriously.
It also blows my mind to think about what it mean that God is working in me for His good pleasure.
I'm encouraged today to ask God about these mysteries and also to rest in His peace because even if I don't understand them He does and He's said that I just have to ask.
Fall Morning Snuggles
It's a chilly fall morning (finally!) and my sweet family is all snuggling in our warm bed. Have a wonderful weekend!
Philippians 2:3-4
Jeremiah 29:4-14
We started a Tim Keller study titled "The Gospel: Grace Changes Everything" in our home group last night and I've already learned new things. We discussed Jeremiah 29:4-14 and talked about how we can love out city.
I would like to expand on all that I learned but I need to get some rest. I encourage you to read those verses and think about how you can love your neighbors as yourself.
Philippians 1:27-30
The weather is wonderful this morning. It's cool and crisp and such a welcome change from the stuffy, hot days of late summer. I'm still not used to summer days lasting until nearly October and I miss the color changes in MN, but Texas is growing on me. I love Denton and am grateful that God brought us there.
Philippians 1: 27-30 Only let your manner of life be worthy of the gospel of Christ, so that whether I come and see you or am absent, I may hear of you that you are standing firm in one spirit, with one mind striving side by side for the faith of the gospel, 28 and not frightened in anything by your opponents. This is a clear sign to them of their destruction, but of your salvation, and that from God. 29 For it has been granted to you that for the sake of Christ you should not only believe in him but also suffer for his sake, 30 engaged in the same conflict that you saw I had and now hear that I still have.
Dreadlock Update
My dreads are about 20 weeks old (5 months!).
They're still really fuzzy but they're coming along. I'm enjoying not having to do so much to my hair everyday but it is tough to find a time each week to tighten them because I can't do it all myself. I'm still glad I have them, though!
Philippians 1:9-11
I'm reading through Philippians 1 again this morning and am going to try to keep in mind today that the reason I do and the reason that I should increase my knowledge is to give God glory.
Matthew 6:25-34
25 "Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing?26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, 29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, 'What shall we eat?' or 'What shall we drink?' or 'What shall we wear?' 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
34 "Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.
Philippians 4:4-7
4 Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, Rejoice. 5 Let your reasonableness be known to everyone. The Lord is at hand; 6 do not be anxious about anything, but in everything by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God. 7 And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.
No longer sure why I'm counting...
I missed my blogging the last few days. It really helps me process my Bible studying. I finished reading 2 Peter and moved on to Philippians. I really like verses 9-11 (ch. 1) because it reminded me that we can always love more but it's not the love that the world talks about that's flighty, impulsive and often selfish but a godly love that's knowledgable, discerning and abounding.
I'm going to read chapter one again tomorrow.
My dreads are doing well. I just need to keep palm rolling them and be patient!
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I read 2 Peter chapter 2 today. It spoke about false teachers and people that know and believe the gospel but turn away from it. Pretty heavy.
My first thought was about a verse that says nothing can take us from God's hand after we've put our faith in Him but maybe we can jump out? There are lots of verses that talk about the fruit that we'll show when are faith is in Christ and that we should work out our salvation with fear and trembling. Also that some people will get to heaven and God will tell them He doesn't know them. Those thoughts furthered my thinking that we can't just say a few words or do any special action, we need to truly believe in Christ and spend the rest of our lives loving Him and serving Him.
If I really believe that Christ is the only way to heaven and I put my hope and faith in him then my actions will reflect that. Whenever they don't it's because I'm hoping or trusting in something else (like myself, or Chuck, or money or whatever).
I'm not going to copy all of 2 Peter 2 so I'll leave you with James 2:14-18.
18 But someone will say, "You have faith and I have works." Show me your faith apart from your works, and I will show you my faith by my works.
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I finished reading chapter one of 2nd Peter. Verses 16-20 caught my attention because Peter says he witnessed Christ's majesty first hand and heard God say "This is my son." He also says he believes the prophesies concerning Jesus to be God's voice heard by others.
The teaching pastor of our church did a sermon about the authority and inerrancy of the Bible this past Sunday. He talked about the men who penned the Bible using the phrase "God said" over 300 times. If you're interested you can listen to the sermon at www.thevillagechurch.net
I don't have a hard time believing that Jesus was God and did all that He claimed to do, including rise from the dead, but I've always thought that if someone can believe God created everything from nothing anything else is easy.
I struggle with understanding in other areas but believe that the Bible is true.
I had some other thoughts about seeing, believing and following movements but I'm a bit tired today and currently have a little boy draining me of nutrients so I'm finding it hard to form complex thoughts.
I love you and hope you have a peaceful day.
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I starter knitting again today after a long break. I've got two Snuggler orders to make in the next few weeks. I'd much rather be knitting than doing many others things but I am going to try to balance it.
Knitting this afternoon got me thinking about fall, Thanksgiving and cooler weather. I don't think I'll bring my fall decorations out quite yet, however, as it's still green and 90 degrees outside.
Today I read more of 2 Peter 1, verse 9 specifically . I'm still praying and thinking about it but my initial thoughts were about how I so quickly forget how amazing a gift Jesus sacrifice is. I am very easily forget that all people are made in God's image and the only reason He accepts me as his child is Jesus. I too quickly measure myself up to (or against) others instead of finding my identity in Christ.
If I kept the gospel in the front, rather than the back, of my mind and made effort to supplement my faith with the attributes listed in 2 Peter 1:5, I think I would be better able to love others first rather than judge them.
Apron
I have had this apron in my head for a long time and after wearing my old one all morning I decided that during nap time today I would make it. It only took about 45 minutes because the bottom is a dish towel!
Technical Difficulties
For some reason when I email a post from my phone photos work most of the time but not if I put more than a few lines of text. I'm not sure what the deal is but if you read my blog via a reader or something like that I apologize for the extra posts as I'm trying to fix things.
Also, I've decided to take the weekend off from blogging. I'm still experimenting with the best balance of life and blogging and while blogging has really helped me the last few days I have a feeling if I don't take a few days off I'll end up falling off the wagon like I did with the original Photo a Day project.
Have a fabulous weekend!
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I'm continuing reading in 2 Peter. I thought last night and this morning again about my struggles but also about idols. Things I think about more often than I think about Jesus. Most of the time it's me and my plans like I've talked about. The verses today tell me that i should think about Jesus and focus on being fruitful and serving Him.
We all know that a negative attitude never helps our days go better and that worrying doesn't make things go smoother it just makes us feel worse. That's the case because it's not how God designed things. If we think about positive things and remember that the reason is because God gave us Jesus so that we may become partakers of the divine nature, having escaped from the corruption that is in the world because of sinful desire. (2 Peter 1:4b)
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When I think about my struggles, the common everyday ones, it's not that I find Jesus peace lacking, it's that I accept. I don't go to it for comfort. Instead I sit and wallow in my inadiquicy and the frustration I have in my situation. I prefer my ideas of entitlement to His plan for my life.
I thought about it all day and was even more frustrated at myself thar I still got angry with the dog chewing Ruby's shoe and dinner not going as planned.
Thankfully He forgives me and loves me. I have hope to overcome my struggles because He has overcome the world.
2 Peter 1:3 His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence,
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Romans 4:1-5
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nor be weary when reproved by him.
6 For the Lord disciplines the one he loves,
and chastises every son whom he receives."
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New clothes
Ruby and I were both wearing recently acquired clothing (her outfit and my skirt) but she wasn't posing very well. Here's the best photo we got. She's still pretty cute.
And my dreads are about 4 months old!
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Contentment in All Circumstances
Contentment in All Circumstances
Pure exhaustion. That would describe me right now. Having found little sleep last night leaves me feeling pretty drained. Fear has been attacking me lately at the thought of trying to sleep. I was up folding laundry, reading, and simply crying out to the Lord. Can I possibly joyfully serve my family today when I have no brain? Where can I find the strength necessary to just focus on today, rather than worrying about tomorrow?
What does it mean to be content during these challenges seasons?
... Click the link to read the full post ...
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Thanks to my loving, thoughtful husband I get a few hours to sit and read by myself this morning.
Thanks to a friend at my favorite coffee shop (Jupiter House) I get a sweet treat as well.
I pray that these sweet times remind my heart even more how to be grateful during the hard times.
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Having a snack. Naked cookies, according to Ruby. Ruby knows she's being silly and it makes her giggles even more enjoyable.
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Enzo's first time swinging!
I missed a few days but want to keep it up so instead of everyday I'm going to try to better document the activities of our days. Like this milestone. So sweet. They're growing every day!
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What day is it?
I'm surprised that I missed Sunday AND Monday! The days are flying by. Chuck and I begin at the University this Thursday. We got our books yesterday and I'm a little daunted by how many and how thick but trying to stay positive that the professors will be thorough and engaging and the subject matter interesting (history or fashion and history of surrealism should be pretty interesting). Also that neither is ultimately important and that God will get us through this busy season so I can choose to rest in his peace and strength or stress myself out trying to hold it together by my own strength.
Have a good Tuesday and keep an eye out for a few photos today. :)
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Enzo has been eating more and more semi-solid foods each few days. Today he had some bananas and Ruby helped him eat them for dinner. So sweet.
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Enzo in his upcycled t-shirt screen printed by local artist Jenn Gooch. We got it at the Denton Community Market. She was having a sale before moving out of state.
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There's not much going on tonight. We had a full day but I (not unpredictably) didn't photograph any of it. So here's a high contrast picture of our dining room ceiling fan.
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Sunday afternoon treat. Rebu loves ice cream. She's loved it since before she was born. I wonder if that means that Enzo will love chocolate cake? Too bad for him he's not getting any until he's 10 years old. Ok grandparents maybe 6... No younger than 3!
We made a lot of progress on the kids room yesterday. Chuck got a nail gun kit which makes building bunk beds and bookcases way easier and I'm working on picking out the perfect wall color.
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Ok, I'm caught up. Today is #18.
I'm still liking my dreads but there are days when I feel impatient. I just have to give myself a quick peptalk, though, and I'm glad I'm taking this journey.
This photo is evidence of the living room's cavelike quality. It's in line for renovations. Our goal is to finish the kids room before the fall semester (a couple of weeks) and I'm not sure what's next. Eventually he living room will get new Sheetrock (no more paneling) and a pleasant gray color on the walls at least. We have ideas for a skylight or two so it's less of a cave as well as a built in bookcase with a ladder!
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I'm contemplating hanging a pot rack above the stove. Specifically a bicycle wheel that would act as a pot rack. What do you think? Would it look too cluttered? Would it be good only if I had really attractive pots?
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I didn't take any photos yesterday. I get an F minus for the day but am back on track today. I'm not giving up! Here's Ruby talking on the phone to her Grandpa Mike. She's so big.
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I unfortunately made it through yesterday without taking any photos but I was holding Ruby while Chuck took this one so I'm going to count it.
The air vent was blowing on Ruby and she was experimenting with how it blew her hair, fingers and face. She's so fun.
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